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Candidly...
from Cynthia Clay, President of NetSpeed Leadership


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From NetSpeed Leader Volume 29, November 2006

Coaching to help people improve their performance is one of those skills that is easy to talk about and a whole lot harder to do. A recent experience has driven home for me just how important having a good coach can be.

My seven-year old daughter has recently started taking ice-skating lessons. To help make it fun, I join her on the ice after her lesson for an hour of free-skating. I wish I could say I cut a graceful figure on the ice. In fact, about all I can do is skate within an arm’s length of the railing so I can steady myself if I start to lose control. Last weekend, I decided to teach myself how to skate backwards. I observed the skillful and experienced skaters in the center of the ice rink skating backwards as they launched themselves into athletic jumps and turns.

"How hard can it be to skate backwards?" I asked myself. After an hour of wiggling, twisting, and turning as I tried to propel myself backwards, I concluded, "Pretty darn hard." This is what I call a "coachable moment." It is that moment when the learner realizes that she needs serious help from someone who is willing to give concrete positive and negative feedback. If a coach had magically appeared, I would have hung on her every word.

In the NetSpeed Leadership module, Coaching to Redirect, we liken the work of a skilled manager to an archery coach who helps someone hit the bull's eye on a target. To guide an inexperienced archer, the coach gives developmental feedback that includes praise and redirection in equal measure. Just as an archer needs to make small adjustments with the guidance of his coach so as to get the arrow closer to the bull's eye, so does an employee set about learning and mastering a new task.

From the coach's perspective, what can make the coaching role difficult to perform is the attitude of the learner. Often, when tackling the new task or assignment, an employee says, in effect, "How hard can it be?" Convinced that she might be able to perform the task without much assistance from the manager or coach, she may blunder forward (or, in my case, backward) until she discovers that she needs help.

As coaches we are there to support, guide and direct employees when those "coachable moments" occur. Essentially we allow our employees to fail with support. In those moments we move from passive observer to active coach, redirecting and praising improvement on the road to mastery. And you know what? Many arrows will miss the mark before mastery occurs. It’s all part of the coaching and learning process.






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